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Ten Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage

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<span style="font-family: sans-serif;">1. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you. </span><br />
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2. Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life. </div>
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3. The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women. </div>
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 4. Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don't lose something so precious in a thoughtless way. </div>
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 5. Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure. </div>
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 6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today's infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married. </div>
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 7. The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage. </div>
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 8. Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences. </div>
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 9. Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father's love, protection and care.  </div>
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10. If you date and you don't have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you. True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital sex. They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all - the love nest of marriage.‎</div>
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Ten Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage

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A person who is lying to you won’t make eye contact with you or they make too much eye contact.:I believe many men have faced this situation in the course of their love life. According to the psychologist, women are the best liars!</div>
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When women are lying and they notice you are suspicious, they always look down at the floor or away from your eyes. Some try to stare you in the face in a deliberate way because they feel like making eye contact will make what they are sayings more believable.</div>
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Liars avoid using contractions. However, I believe men, too, use the same strategies to lie. And when you corner a liar, especially a woman, they always ask a question like,“where did you get that information” while they try to back pedal and come up with an explanation for your question.</div>
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<b>Blink rapidly</b>:Liars adopt weird body language. Liars often fidget, turn away from the person to whom they are speaking, blink rapidly, smile less and have pitch changes in their tone of voice.They may cross their arms which is a sign of being “closed” or trying not to reveal too much information. Sometimes people fidget excessively when they are lying.They could fidget with a part of their body or touch parts of their face, an ear or a nose or play with keys or another item that they have in their hand. Women who lie provide additional information without being asked for it. They seem to think that by embellishing their story you will find it more believable. What happens, unfortunately, is they tend to make the story more complicated and less believable.</div>
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<b>The more elaborate the story, the morevlikely that it is a fabrication and nothing near the truth</b>: A person who is telling a lie will get defensive. They will do everything in their power to deflect your attention away from themselves. And will get angry that you are questioning their innocence. People who are telling the truth tend to go the opposite way, and go on the offense.</div>
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<b>Change subject:</b>This will become obvious to you when you are trying to have a conversation with a person and they try to change the subject or move the conversation in a different direction. If a person is lying they tend to over-embellish insignificant details while avoiding important ones. So gentlemen, please learn to detect a liar early enough so that you can then detach yourself from her, before you invest a life’s saving in the stranger.‎</div>
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After an abusive relationship or marriage, there is no doubt you will have feelings of deep sorrow for a long time, which could go on for possibly months or even years. These feelings will come and go periodically as you reflect and you remember things from the <a href="" name="more"></a>past that would make you feel distressed.</blockquote>
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You may be inundated with disappointments, which may lead you to voice your regrets, especially coming across certain people or a person. Several Instances could cause flashbacks and bring back thoughts of regret such as; signing a contract, making a decision, joining an organization, trusting people, buying a property. Also your mind would question why you hung unto a dead marriage or stayed in an abusive relationship. Don't stay in that condition for too long.</blockquote>
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Regrets will only aggravate your feelings. Forget about the things you cannot change and focus on being thankful. Don’t put your life on hold, rather plan what you would like to accomplish in one week, one month, three months and in a year’s time.</blockquote>
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See the silver lining in the cloud. You may struggle to find or observe that flicker of light emerging out of the darkness but give yourself time to recover from that shocking hopeless experience, then thank God for making you strong enough to walk away from the abuse.</blockquote>
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The situation might be tough, with burdensome chains, but you will get better. You can rise up to the challenge and improve yourself. Something good will come out of your situation. You will become a stronger and more productive person when you learn from your experience and use your knowledge to improve yourself for new prospects ahead. "I want my life to bring comfort to others and I am on that journey now thankfully." Every ending is really a new beginning for beautiful opportunities ahead.‎</blockquote>
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Well, here we give you a list of seven such things which you can overlook in your partner and continue having a blissful relationship with them.</div>
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#1. Based upon the age difference</div>
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Do not reject him/her due to the age difference. After all, age is just a number. The thought of what society will think about your age gap is certainly not a reason to neglect your partner. You are both happy and love each other, so why stress over such useless issues?</div>
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#2. Based upon the difference in height</div>
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Ignoring someone because he/she is not tall enough will be your biggest mistake. Your relationship should be based on love, understanding and trust. Height should not be the factor to consider here.</div>
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#3. Based upon their looks</div>
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Even looks and appearances of the partner should not matter much. Looks change with age and time, but what remains intact forever is the loving nature of the person. So, love your partner for their nature, and not for their appearance.</div>
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#4. Based upon his/her friends</div>
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Friends are important for everyone. But, there are times when you might not like your partner’s friends for some or the other reasons. So, no matter how useless you consider their friends to be, it is best to overlook this thing. Your relationship is with your partner, not with his/her friends.</div>
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#5. Based upon their past behaviour</div>
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Just because your partner is known for flirtatious behaviour in the past, does not mean that you cannot count on him/her now. Agreed, that trusting such people seems difficult at first. But, as the time passes, you will come to know of their sincerity towards you by their behaviour, attitude and commitment. So, before cutting them off your life for good, try to ignore their past ways and give them a chance. Who knows, you both might be made for each other!</div>
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#6.Based upon his/her unromantic side</div>
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You might be an extremely romantic person and expect the same from your partner, but to your dismay your companion might not be that romantic. Having said that, maybe expressing their feelings for you is hard for them. Well, it can be frustrating at times. But hey, there must be something which your partner does to show his/her love towards you. Think about it and ignore the rest.‎</div>
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Ending the relationship is easy. You just come across some faults in a person and break-up with them. But, if you know that whatever may be the situation, he/she will always be by your side, then it is best to overlook certain things in the relationship. And, be with them forever</div>
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According to Dr. Phil McGraw of popular health talk show 'Dr Phil', everyone lies. He says that people lie an average of three times in the first 10 minutes that they’re trying to get to know each other.<br />
A recent survey revealed that men lie six times a day and women lie 3 times a day. Some lies are small (“You haven’t aged one bit!” or “Sorry I’m late, but traffic was horrible!”), but others, like infidelity, can destroy a relationship.<br />
The truth is if you’re close to someone who isn’t trustworthy or you’re the one who’s not being transparent, you can start making a change with Dr. Phil’s 7 strategies compiled by Beliefnet:<br />
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<b>Start by Being Honest with Yourself</b>: The most destructive lies we tell are the ones we tell ourselves. When you lie to yourself, you're really crippling your ability to interact with the world because how you present yourself to the world impacts how you are treated in return.<br />
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<b>Negotiate for What You Want — </b>Don’t Just Try to Take it With a Lie: For example, if you want a baby, going off the pill and tricking your spouse into getting you pregnant is not the way to go! Every lie has a cost. Instead of going about it the wrong way, try pushing for what you want in a mature, straightforward way.<br />
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<b>You Teach People How to Treat You:</b> You are complicit in someone else’s deception when you are willfully blind. Is it clear as day that your partner is cheating but you turn a cheek? If you’re in denial, then you are teaching someone he can get away with lying to you. Are you willing to settle for what you’re doing, or do you want to teach someone that you deserve<br />
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<b>People Who Have Nothing to Hide, Hide Nothing: </b>If something doesn’t feel right to you, it probably isn’t. And for every rat you see, there could be 50 you can’t. When someone gets caught lying, it’s likely there are more.<br />
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<b>You Can't Change What You Don't Acknowledge:</b> Be real with yourself and with your partner. Be honest with yourself about whether somebody is using you or misrepresenting things to you. Of course that will be painful and could leave you feeling betrayed, but you can’t move forward until you recognize what’s going on. That takes courage and strength; you may surprise yourself with both when you start to get real.<br />
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<b>Be Forthcoming When You Start a Relationship;</b> Ask for the Same in Return: If you’ve got a secret, it's probably going to come out eventually. So if you think things in your relationship might get serious, you might as well be honest from the beginning. Likewise, if you have trust issues because you’ve been burnt before, you might say from the get-go: “Listen, I’ve been deceived before. So if I seem a little stand-offish or a little suspicious, let me tell you why. I want you to understand where I’m coming from because I’ve got nothing to hide. I hope you’ll do the same.<br />
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<b>Give a Loved One the Chance to Earn Your Trust Back</b> — if He/She Deserves it: It is possible for your friend or partner to change, but he’s got to earn your trust back one step at a time while you have your eyes wide open. Once he owns it, stops justifying it, and shows that he’s willing and capable of building a new history, you can start trusting again.</div>

Everybody lies...7 steps to getting the truth out of someone

According to Dr. Phil McGraw of popular health talk show 'Dr Phil', everyone lies. He says that people lie an average of three ti...

8 Body Spots Every Women Want To Be Touched‎.‎

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<span style="font-family: sans-serif;">Having a lady love your touches involves more than just romance and caressing. It involves sensitive parts of her body which sometimes turn her on more than s.ex…… Below are some of the parts a lady appreciates more </span><br />
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• Hair ‎</div>
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Maintaining their gorgeous locks isn’t the only reason women go to their hairstylists so often. The process of wash, cut, color, and styling can actually be quite a stress reliever. Running your hands gently through her hair is a surefire way to send tingles down her spine. Let your fingers massage circles from her temples to the nape of her neck and she’ll be putty in your hands. </div>
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• Nape of her neck </div>
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Once you get to the nape of her neck, place a few light kisses there. In ancient Japan, the back of a woman’s neck was seen as very attractive by men since it was one of the few places not covered by clothing. In modern times, the nape of the neck is often neglected in favor of more obvious pleasure centers, but never underestimate the power of gentle touches and kisses from her hairline to her shoulders. </div>
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• Clavicle </div>
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A well-defined clavicle, or collarbone, can be very s#xy on a woman. Why not show your appreciation for its beauty with your touch and kiss? Pay attention to this body part while she’s still fully clothed, unbuttoning her shirt just enough to reveal the clavicle and no further. You can always come back to it once the clothes have disappeared as well to remind her of the anticipation it created when you started there. </div>
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• Small of her back </div>
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The best way to guide your woman through a crowd is to place your hand against the small of her back. This small gesture shows that you feel protective of her without being too pushy like an arm around the shoulder might be. When you’re alone, kissing or licking down her spine to end up with a kiss on the small of her back will get her heart racing. </div>
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• Behind her knees </div>
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This area is one that most men don’t think of when trying to stimulate a woman, but it is, in fact, quite sensitive. Gently caressing the back of the knee under her skirt while the two of you are in a public place will make her ready to get busy once you get home. Don’t forget to pay some more attention to this special spot once you’re alone too. </div>
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• Palms of her hands </div>
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People often use their hands as tools to please their partners, but rarely do they consider the pleasure potential of stimulating the hands themselves. The palm of a woman’s hand is an innocuous spot to focus a little attention on without making people around you uncomfortable. Tracing your finger along her palm will give her delightful shivers and make you appear sensitive and attentive. </div>
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• Earlobes Touching, kissing and even lightly biting the earlobes of your woman will up the bliss factor for her. These delicate, soft lobes are very sensitive and most women thoroughly enjoy the sensation of having a man’s lips on them. You can nibble around the outside of the rest of her ear as well, but for courtesy’s sake avoid jamming your tongue inside her ear. </div>
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• Feet </div>
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Pulp Fiction taught us that rubbing the feet of another man’s wife may be an offense punishable by being thrown out a window, so the sensual appeal of a foot massage is obvious. There are few better ways to help her relax than to give her feet a good rub, especially if her job requires her to be on them all day. Do it right and grab some massage oil or lotion. Don’t forget to pay some attention to her toes, ankles and the sides of her feet too. Some women really enjoy having their toes s*cked, but others find it repulsive, so asking first is a good idea before putting them in your mouth</div>
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Not every long distance relationship is as tedious and as complicated as you think it is. The ability to keep a relationship doesn't matter if it's a long or short one lies with you and your partner..</div>
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Maintaining a long distance relationship is all about teamwork and finding a balance between how much you give and how much you receive in the relationship.</div>
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<strong>Corina Dondas of All Women Stalk</strong> lists 7 top signs that you and your partner can handle a long distance relationship:</div>
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<strong>You are optimistic: </strong>One of the most #obvious signs that you and your partner are ready for a long-distance relationship is that you are positive when you think about your relationship. You are optimistic about your future together and you know that if you are willing to make certain compromises, your #relationship will flourish no matter how far you are from each other.</div>
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<strong>You two trust each other:</strong> If you and your partner trust each other and you know that you have nothing to worry about when you live in different cities or different parts of the globe, then this may be a clear sign that you two can handle a long-distance #relationship. There might still be some insecurities that your #partner might find someone else, but try not to let them interfere with your happiness.</div>
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<strong>You value communication:</strong> If you want your long-distance #relationship to be successful, then you and your partner have to be aware of the importance of good communication. It’s very important to be in touch with each other through e-mails, webcam chats, phones or anything else. This will strengthen your bond and it will give you a sense of togetherness.</div>
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<strong>You plan surprises for each other: </strong>If you and your loved one love to plan surprises for each other because you like bringing a smile to each other’s faces as often as you can, you might handle all the challenges that a long-distance #relationship can bring. You could send each other e-cards, gifts, love letters or you could dedicate love songs that will illustrate the feelings you have for each other.</div>
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<strong>You take your relationship seriously:</strong>If you want your long-distance relationship to work, then you and your partner need to take it seriously. You have to keep your #relationship a high priority. For example, if your #partner calls, then you should try to answer them, no matter how busy you are. Return their texts as soon as possible. Basically, do #everything in your power to show them how important they are to you.</div>
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<strong>You love to travel:</strong> If you are a big fan of traveling, then a long-distance relationship might be perfect for you since you will often have the #chance to just hop on a train, plane or car and go visit your significant other.</div>
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<strong>You are not jealous:</strong> If you are not a jealous individual and if you and your #partner don’t have any trust issues, then you two can handle a long-distance relationship. Jealousy can ruin any relationship, especially the long-distance ones since as you are not always around your significant other, you don’t know what they are doing or with whom they are.‎</div>
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Rumour has it that women have resorted to locking their phones, hiding their men and coding their gist from so-called friends cos it’s a jungle out there…</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">2. Re-inventing themselves. Pretence is the order of the day. No man wants to tame the shrew or teach the inexperienced or make an honest woman out of a dishonest one so once marriage is desired, women package themselves in pseudo, ready-made, easy-to-use, highly desirable packages. After marriage, what you see is what you get!</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">3. Trapping him with pregnancy. This used to be the old school method of getting a man to propose. From skipping the pill to seducing the man or getting him drunk when she was ovulating, a woman </span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><a caretmarkerset="INVALID" href="" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;"></a><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">usually knew she had the man where she wanted him once she missed her period even if there was no commitment.</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">Now the guys are saying YES to baby mamas and YES to child support. Are the girls deterred? NO! The girls have stepped up their game by involving the parents and you know parents don’t like scandals.</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">4. Praying&Fasting. This would presumably be an honourable means of obtaining a husband but</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">sometimes the prayers are offered up to deities other than God & other times it becomes a song permanently on repeat.</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">5. Taking his photograph to places for a</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">prophetess to pray over or a powerful Alfa. Heard it works like a charm.</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">6. Taking his sperm, hair or personal effects to herbalist. Guys, disposing off your condoms yourself is not such a bad idea…</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">8. Putting love portion in his food! This is classic and timeless but shouldn’t it be called a ‘compelling’ portion? Because in this case, love is by force!</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">9. Saying YES to a man you despise! A woman has two classes of men usually on her case. The ‘correct’ guys and the ‘disgos’. The disgos usually end up as rebounds but many a woman has shocked a despondent toaster with a sudden ‘Yes’ and men have agreed that truly there is nothing God cannot do!</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">10. Proposing to a guy! Yes it does happen… (Who wears the engagement ring?)</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">11. Toasting a man’s family so they make the decision for him! A friend complained that a girl he detested had over the months gotten close to his family. Lavishing money on them, cooking for them and basically being their ‘go-to’ girl and now his mum had put her foot down that he had to break up with his girlfriend and</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">marry little-miss-went-home-to-mama. Depending on how much power the family use, their word may be final…</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">12. Asking daddy to get you a husband! If daddy’s a big shot, arranging a husband for you is usually as easy as pie and some men would sell their souls for a large chunk of daddy’s money so both parties are happy…</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">13. Being your man’s maga! Some women believe that when you finally get a man to be interested in you, spoiling him and overlooking his every fault would get you into a white gown faster than an okada chased by LASTMA! Some men don’t mind a woman who houses them, clothes them, feeds them, gives ‘em pocket money, never gets upset with them even when</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">they misbehave and cleans up after them with little or no contribution from them… Living the dream </span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">14. Giving him unlimited freedom as long as he proposes. “Tell me I’m number one baby, tell me I’m the future mother of your kids and not Amina, Bisi or Ngozi!” Women used to wanna be the one AND ONLY in their man’s life, now being the number one is good enough…</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">15. Polishing up a low class, barely educated brother in exchange for a ring! The deal is simple, you send your cleaner, gateman or driver to night school, you give him language lessons, you take him to buy some new clothes and deodorant and teach him to call you honey</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">instead of madam and in exchange, he gets to marry you, share an expensive bedroom and never worry about his bills ever again!</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">16. Revamping yourself. Change your ward-robe, lose 20kg, buy a truckload of brazilian hair, study the karma-sutra, do a vaginoplasty and change the age on your birth-certificate to read 22. Botox, plastic surgery, a compulsory gym membership and ‘body magic’ also indicated!</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">17. Becoming a worker in church! Rumour has it that men go to church to marry, the same rumour also reveals that ‘Greeters’, ‘Ushers’ and ‘Lead Soloists’ have the best exposure…praise the Lord!</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">18. Moving to a new town or part of town so that you are the ‘new girl’. This always peaks the men’s interest and at the same time you get to run away from your past and the ‘old maid’ labels! Combine this with number 16 above and ooh la la!</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><a caretmarkerset="INVALID" href="http://www.kevindjakporblog.com/" name="BB10" style="color: #7d181e; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none;">19.</a><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;"> Abandoning your hopes, dreams and ambitions! I’ve heard people say that women looking for a prince charming live unrealistic dreams, virgins are old-school, overly educated women are proud, rich women are not</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">submissive, ambitious women are conceited, women with demanding jobs won’t have time for their families, women who want a faithful man are deluded and women who don’t get pregnant before wedlock have something wrong with their plumbing! So forsake the</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">masters, don’t even dream of a PhD, quit your job, give away all your money and surely a husband will come… And if all else fails…</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">20. Marry a married man! He could be your friend’s husband, your sister’s husband, your cousin’s husband, your colleague’s husband, even your mother’s husband if you like!</span><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><br caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;" /><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="background-color: white; color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;">Can you blame these women? The average guy has commitment phobia or is out to play till he is all spent before he settles down or is waiting to make his first ’5 million’ before saying ‘I do’. Even a man with no future ambition or class, much less finances still knows he could have his pick of the best women out there, once he announces he is looking to settle! The last census showed a female-dominated demographic with more women per eligible bachelor. Family and society constantly put the woman in hot water making her personal successes irrelevant till she bags a man.</span><span caretmarkerset="INVALID" name="BB10" style="color: black; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-weight: normal;"><br /></span></h1>
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<span style="font-family: sans-serif;">When it comes to romance, Nigerian men are known to be actively engaging. Apart from their culture of carrying the financial burden of relationship with women, they harness every opportunity to appeal to their lovers, be it on social-network sites, in their respective offices, religious organizations, gym centers, parks, clubs among others… Despite the many romantic attributes that could be said of men in Nigeria, women still hold a contrary account about them. </span><br />
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Predominant among the contrary views women hold against men here is that no matter how romantic they are, getting them to the altar for marriage could be very challenging. So, what are those factors that scare Nigerian men away from marriage? We have tried to compile some reasons that make most men feel jittery to converse on ‘Marriage’ as topic, feel free to add yours if not in our list. </div>
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 1. No wife materials Common among some men is the reservation that there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria. In this case, they are not referring to ladies not being in quantifiable distribution among men, what they are complaining about is that most ladies of this generation lack the necessary attributes that will qualify them for the lifetime commitment called marriage. If this is the case, time of quality search can help heal the wound of such man. </div>
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 2. They get s*x freely without marriage than in time past Realizing now that they can get s*x more easily than in times past, when ‘virginity’ for women was a pass value to marriage, some men now feel lot of women today have lost it when it comes to keeping themselves whole. But, this might not be the fault of women as promiscuity is not an exclusive act than can be carried out without the consent of either gender. </div>
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 3. Nigeria weddings are expensive In a country where a man is expected to marry a woman in three different kinds of wedding- Religious, Traditional and Court, the cost of marriage no doubt is something men find very intimidating. As of last year, the average Nigeria wedding cost something like N500,000 and the it goes upward from that to more unimaginable cost. For most people, especially in this economy, that’s a lot of money. But all we advise is that men should try and cut their coat according to their material </div>
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 4. In search of a ‘working class’ Today, most Nigerian men are in search of a wife capable of sharing financial responsibilities with them. Gone are the days when men marry ‘full-house-wives’, the increasing cost of living has tilted most men in favor of ladies who have a means of livelihood and willing to share with their man, the burden of building a home. </div>
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 5. Fear of freedom There is a common belief among some men that marriage puts an end to one’s freedom. Single men today are much more proud about not being dependent and being on their own. They fear marriage because they will become answerable for every action they take to their spouse. That is one big responsibility some men are not ready to take up. </div>
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 6. Career One of the predominant question most men will secretly ask themselves before making the decision to marry are, Will my partner make agitated about me being in office for long hours? Will he or she understand my love for my career? These are cogent questions and answering these questions could slow the decisive actions to be taken on marriage plans. </div>
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 7. Unrealistic Expectations from In-laws Some parents have set certain standards for anyone who will marry their child, either way be it that such expectations are from the groom parent’s or bride, the regulations sometimes affect relationships. If the expectations are behavioral, the challenge might be little but e are some discouraging situations where parents decide the profession qualifications, properties, etc that must be acquired by the suitor before they can give out their child to him in marriage. </div>
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 8. Trust issues Most times, people fear to get committed into a relationship because of trust issues. Some men have been bruised in their past relationships and therefore they don’t want to put themselves out there. </div>
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 9. Bad Testimonies from Married couple Generally, most men get intimidated by marriage as a result of the testimonies they hear from those in marriage. Before getting into marriage talks, it is a common thing among men to ask their brothers, friends who are already married on how the social institution is and the testimonies they get are most times discouraging, as such they fear their marriage will be a replica of the testimonies they have gathered. </div>
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 10. Cultural limitations Nigeria is a country with diverse culture and The diversity sometimes create challenges for men who are in search of women with similar culture. The good thing though is that those who endeavor to explore inter-cultural relationships get the opportunity to gain an in-depth appreciation of other customs.  ‎</div>
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REASONS NIGERIAN MEN AVOID MARRIAGE

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<span style="font-family: sans-serif;">You see a lady working with a big company but still render the service of bed-warming to millionaires and billionaires, and you wonder: 'What does she want? You might know ladies with high paying jobs/blooming businesses, but still offer their bodies for sex to different men who are ready to pay; and you might be like: 'After her huge salary, what does she even want? Well, sit back as i tell you reasons why many of them does that. </span><br />
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 1. Greed: Yes, this is without doubt the major reason. Many of those ladies that offers their bodies for money despite having high paying jobs/business are simply greedy and aren't contented&grateful with what they have. </div>
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 2. Love Of Fun: I personally feel not all those 'high class prostitutes' are from poor homes. Many ladies loves thrilling fun. They will go with men who will take them to parties, trips abroads, etc. So, money isn't necessarily the driving-force of such ladies- but their love for fun. And when they discovered they could make money from randy men while having fun, they capitalise on that. </div>
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 3. Lack Of Dignity: A lady was playing a 'play-play fight' with a guy somewhere. And some of us were like 'This guy is having fun touching your breasts and others'. But she was like 'Oh that's nothing, as far as he isn't doing the 'main thing' (i.e penetration). Though am a man, but am surprised many women doesn't know about something called the 'DIGNITY OF WOMANHOOD'. Real women who know the dignity of womanhood doesn't allow any kind of man play with their bodies anyhow, for his own sexual pleasure. And that's exactly what is wrong with these ladies we are talking about: They don't know their bodies shouldn't be a pleasurable tool for all types of men; they lack dignity. </div>
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 4. Urge To Belong: Urge to belong to where? 'CLIQUE OF BIG GIRLS' of course. Don't you see some of those 'big girls' around you? Big phones; big cars; big dresses; big everything. And you know what? Many of those 'unbig girls' admire them (conciously or not) and want to be like them. Being a 'big girl' requires money. Yes, good money. When many of those working class ladies decided to use their salaries to stay in the clique of 'big girls', they might discover it isn't enough; hence will resort to having another form of income via selling their bodies for money. </div>
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 5. She Is A 'What-You-Have Lady: Many ladies feel all men are pleasure freaks- thus decide to create a 'business' with it. They feel because they are females, they can always have their way and get what they want from men. Hence many of them have the 'USE WHAT YOU HAVE TO GET WHAT YOU WANT' idealogy. They feel, though they have other mean of income, their bodies are 'assets' that can always get them what they want. </div>
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6. Self-centeredness: These ladies think of themselves only. They don't care how their actions will affect their loved ones. Some of those ladies are married, but wouldn't care how their actions affects their husbands. Many of them hooked married men and wouldn't care what's happening to his wife at home. Why? The 'me, myself, and i alone' syndrome. </div>
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 7. Security: Money is security; that's a fact. When you have money (especially in a country like Nigeria) you can do so many things. With the conciousness that a rich man/woman can open doors which a poor man/woman can't open in Nigeria, many Nigerians want this money at all costs. Many ladies are aware of this fact, thus, even when they earn good money legitimatly, they want more and more money. And since many of them feel they can't create another stream of income in a good manner again, they resorted to selling their bodies for money. </div>
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 8. Bad Influence. Influence is powerful. In the work-force, there are different women with different ways of thinking. Some of them are immoral and indecent. They are the 'use what you have to get what you want type'. And if you as a lady mingle with such, before you know it, they'll introduce you to it, and influence you negatively. </div>
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9. The 'It's Temporary Ladies': These are single ladies who want to 'rock their worlds' while single, but plan repenting when it's time to marry. Many ladies who earn salaries and still sell their bodies for money are singles who intend 'changing' when they are ready for marriage. </div>
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Men are not so straight forward with their feelings and women wants a sure shot way of knowing when a man loves them. Some signs of true love are subtle. It sometimes takes a careful observation to notice how deep your partner is hooked on you.<strong> </strong>Here are behaviours that can help you figure out his feelings.</div>
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<strong>1.</strong> He actually listens when you give him a 20-minute-long play-by-play of a dramatic situation with your work frenemy.</div>
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<strong>2.</strong> He doesn’t suggest you go brush your teeth before he kisses you good morning.</div>
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<strong>3.</strong> He initiates cuddling that doesn’t lead to sex.</div>
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<strong>4.</strong> He’s introduced you to all his friends and when you met them, they already knew where you work and the things you like</div>
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<strong>5.</strong> He's introduced you to his parents (or wants to).</div>
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<strong>6.</strong> He texts you just to say “Good morning” or "I'm thinking about you."</div>
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<strong>7.</strong> He never misses the chance to tell you “Good night,” even if he’s out with the guys.</div>
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<strong>8.</strong> He’s prone to saying corny, eye-roll-inducing things such as, “You have the most beautiful smile.”</div>
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<strong>9.</strong> He’s equal parts proud and ever-so-slightly jealous when another man hits on you.</div>
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<strong>10.</strong> He gives you the remote more often than he hogs it.</div>
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<strong>11.</strong> He saves the last bite of any delicious meal just for you.</div>
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<strong>12.</strong> When you're in bed with killer cramps, he runs to the drugstore for tampons and painkillers.</div>
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<strong>13.</strong> All it takes is a single smile aimed in his direction, and this man can’t stay mad at you.</div>
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<strong>14.</strong> Whether he’s prepping for a big meeting or simply picking out his tie, he likes to get your opinion.</div>
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<strong>15.</strong> He cares whether you orgasm and learns what it takes to make it happen.</div>
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<strong>16.</strong> He puts his phone away when you’re around.</div>
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<strong>17.</strong> He teases you in ways that feel funny, not mean.</div>
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<strong>18.</strong> He’s saved every card and note you’ve ever given him. Heck, he even has a sliver of wrapping paper from your first-ever gift exchange.</div>
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<strong>19.</strong> He tells everyone he knows when you have a life achievement of any kind.</div>
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<strong>20.</strong> He says, “I love you” every day, and you believe him.</div>
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You and your spouse used to be able to talk for hours and hours. Now when you do talk, conversation is hollow and empty. Instead of carefree talks, conversation seems constantly strained or stressful.</div>
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2. Lack of interest</div>
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It was your shared interests that helped you and your spouse get together. Now, disinterest in your spouse, your marriage and your life together describes your relationship.</div>
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3. Physical Distance</div>
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Things may have slowed down since you were newlyweds, but now the romance has completely ended. No more surprise kisses, no holding hands when you are together, and no cuddling on the couch during a movie. Intimacy has become more and more infrequent, or no longer present at all.</div>
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4. Little or no effort to understand</div>
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When dissatisfaction is expressed, the situation is treated as annoying or unnecessary. Empathy is no longer present. There is a level of belittling feelings instead of caring or trying to understand what is being felt. Also, there is no motivation to seek a solution to the problem.</div>
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5. You are not a priority</div>
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More and more time is spent away from home and with other people. Whether it’s time out with friends and coworkers, to weekend trips to spend time with a sister or mother, your spending time as a couple is not a priority. Time away from home may also be a disguise for another romantic relationship. Your spouse should always be the priority in your marriage, but that priority has been instead replaced with others.</div>
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6. Constant fighting</div>
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It doesn’t seem to matter what you talk about, because everything turns into an argument. It seems like you are fighting just to fight, instead of actually discussing or talking to one other.</div>
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7. Rudeness and disrespect</div>
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Compliments and positive comments have been replaced with criticism and rudeness. Negative comments about physical appearance, behaviors and people you associate with are more and more frequent. Generally, there is a constant lack of respect for both you and others.</div>
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8. Completely new hobbies</div>
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Suddenly, there is an interest in a new hobby that doesn’t allow you to participate. Though everyone needs his or her alone time, these new hobbies are intentionally created in order to spend more time away from you and away from home.</div>
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While both of you will change and become a little different throughout your marriage, these eight signs may hint that your marriage may be in danger of failing. But do not give up — there are ways to rebuild a strong, happy marriage. There is a reason you chose to get married; do everything you can to help get back the love that has been lost.</div>
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The unserious guy tends to confuse you more as he's courting you, he's often attentive and says all the things you want to hear‎</h3>
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It is never easy at the start of a relationship telling the difference between a guy who's serious about you and one who just want you on the list of women he's  been to bed with.</div>
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These guys are almost one and the same at first then you begin to see the difference much later  - hopefully not too late. The unserious guy tends to confuse you more as he's courting you, he's often attentive and says all the things you want to hear.</div>
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Relationship writer, <strong>Ravid Yosef of YourTango </strong>explains how you decipher what’s going on and really figure out if this guy's serious about you?</div>
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It all begins with the way you listen. Below, I will give you some tips on what to listen for so that you know he’s not playing any games.</div>
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By now, I hope you've taken my advice and asked him the single most important question you should ask on a first date. The premise of that conversation is, “What are you looking for?”</div>
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If you listened intently to his answer, you went on a second date with this man because what you’re both looking for the same thing — something serious. You both share the key aspects of your relationship vision. Congrats on passing step number one!</div>
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<strong>So you’re both looking for a serious relationship, but how do you know if he’s serious about you?</strong></div>
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A man who's serious about a relationship is talking about serious things. He’s looking to qualify you as much as you are looking to qualify him.</div>
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A serious relationship type of guy talks to you about his vision for his life, his goals and his challenges. He’s willing to share himself with you and show vulnerability. But here’s the caveat and where your listening will really come into play: There's a difference between a man who's willing to share for the sake of rehashing and a man who is sharing for discovery. Therein lies the difference in the man who is serious about you, versus the man who is NOT.</div>
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A man who isn't serious about you, or at least one who you shouldn't take seriously, is the one who shares for the sake of sharing. He’s treating you like he would a therapist. He's only interested in someone listening to him talk or in saying what you want to hear. Your conversation doesn’t go anywhere because he continues to rehash what has already been.</div>
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A man who is serious about you and your future together is sharing new ideas and asking questions so that he can learn and discover with you. Your conversation is exploratory and positive and has room for growth. He’s asking about your goals and your vision because he doesn’t want to continue to date you if you’re not serious about the same things‎</div>
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How to tell the difference between a man who's serious about you and one who's simply wasting your time

The unserious guy tends to confuse you more as he's courting you, he's often attentive and says all the things you want to hear‎...